Friday, February 15, 2013

Is she or isn't she?

I drove to Garden City, Kansas today to do find some obituaries I needed to confirm some family members and dates.  I also hoped the obits might give me some leads on locations for siblings and such.  I did NOT expect any of the obituaries to make me scratch my head and say "I don't get it" while searching through the database to see if I can make sense of the obit.

Maybe if I 'talk' my way through it here I will figure it out.  I don't hold out a lot of hope, but here goes.

This person, Ella, is not a direct relative of mine or my husband.  She is the child of my husband's great-grandmother's second husband.  I like gathering a little information on the step portion of families as you just never know when it might come in handy.  I think I'm sorry I picked up her obit.  (Just had to throw in that little whine.)

Ella is not married as far as I know.  Her obit has her maiden name on it, however, it refers to her as Mrs.  That could be a mistake on the newspaper's part.  All of the information in the obit agrees with what I already have for her until I get to survivors.  Now I have a problem.

According to all my research, let me list what I have, oh....wait...I think I may have just solved my problem.  I should have checked my sources before getting too carried away here.  I have her flagged as a POSSIBLE family member.  The obit was to confirm or deny her connection to the family.  I think I just confirmed she is NOT a member of the family.  <big sigh>  I wish I would have noted my question on the obit list today.  It would have saved me a lot of time and aggravation.   So, I'm done whining and I'm glad I picked up the obit. 

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