Sunday, March 9, 2014

Plural Marriage and DAR

We have some family members of the Morman faith, but not many.  It was interesting to me to find a family on my husband's side who believed in plural marriage and practiced it.  I don't have a problem with plural marriage as long as the parties involved are of age and want to be a part of that lifestyle.  I have to admit I don't understand it.  I'm not sharing my husband and he is well aware of that!  :)

When I attended the genealogy conference I met several Morman attendees.  Makes sense, right?  The conference was in Salt Lake City.  As one of the attendees and I visited about DAR she informed me that DAR would not allow her to join because her mother was not the 1st wife of the war ancestor's descendant.  I was appalled. What difference does it make?  What if the first wife had died and this was a second wife?  (My membership is through a second wife as the first wife died.) Again, what difference does it make as long as my new friend can prove her relationship to the ancestor?  I called DAR when I returned home.  Apparently DAR did not allow this in the past.  But like many other things in our lives, opinions change as time passes.  I notified my new friend to submit her paperwork.  She is going to let me know how things go for her.

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